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It isn't politically correct to say it, but as a dude, I agree with you.
ReplyDeleteAt 15, I would have done a snake if somebody held its head.
This woman isn't some nasty hag. She is jerkoff material a 15/yo hides under his bed.
Trouble is, she didn't realise that a 15/yo will tell everyone about nailing a cheerleader.
Bernie - Wasn't that dream role played out with a certain person in W. Easton. (unamed) LOL..Just busting on you.
ReplyDeleteThat thing has got to sneak up on a glass of water¿
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As a adult woman or man (mostly teachers) who has sex with underage boys 3 things are sure to happen.
ReplyDeleteThe sex will suck.
They will tell all their friends.
You will get caught.
Tasteless comment, you old goat.
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ReplyDeleteAgree with you Bernie especially since the girls were in one wing of the building and the boys in the other. We were robbed!!!
ReplyDeleteLinking to Faux News will only rile up bagger-boy, Bernie.
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If I were 15, I'd dream of maybe a 30 year old.
ReplyDeleteThis woman is the age of the wrinkled horse woman that had her eye on you Bernie.
I'm sure it sounds dreamy, but the truth about boys being molested by older women is really not that pretty.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was 15, a male classmate of mine was regularly banging a teacher of ours. She was our debate coach, and we spent a lot of time outside of school with her for tournaments and practice and whatever. (This was in Texas, and they take their debate tournaments super seriously. It was a full time extracurricular for the smart geeks, and it was fun.) I was too dumb at the time to realize what was going on "behind the scenes." But what I did notice was that Matt became more and more isolated from his friends. He would stay late after school and totally disappear on weekends when we weren't at a tournament. He used to be an honor roll student, and his grades dived. I eventually learned that he was willingly spending all his time with our coach.
He kept this situation very private, because it was a true dirty secret. It was not cool - it did not make him popular by any means. In fact, it totally removed him from all of his social connections. I know now that he was taken advantage of by an older woman who had serious mental issues. It was a situation that took over his whole life, like a drug, and he couldn't tell a soul about it. Imagine how lonely he must have been. It makes me so sad that I did not know and could not help him. I do remember worrying a lot about his obvious depression and suicidal comments at the time...but I was also 15 and just so innocent and clueless. All in all, it made him go from a happy, outgoing geek to a quiet, introverted, depressed and very lonely teenager. By any standard, it ruined his life.
As a mom now, you can bet that I don't see this as a funny issue or one that is "no big deal." I know you wouldn't present this story the same way if the victim was a girl. I do not know this woman or the boy, but I do know that anyone her age who preys upon a boy that age is a criminal and mentally disturbed. He is a victim who will live his entire life dealing with the fallout from this. His family has my sympathy - it is not something they will ever truly recover from.
The sad thing is, this type of thing happens all the time. I think boys need to be aware that they can be victims, and that they can be molested. We tend to teach our girls about these kinds of dangers, but we (collectively) assume that boys aren't in any danger.
I bet if you had a daughter and she was 15, and she was raped by a former male football player you wouldn't be making all these funny jokes.
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As a 15 year old my buddy's aunt used to do the two of us at the same time. At 15 it was cool. When his uncle found out it wasn't so cool.
ReplyDeleteWe were the envy of all our peers. I must say, we view that differently now that we are adults. She took advantage of us but we enjoyed it. You're right Bernie, it was cool and while it lasted, exciting too. We never told our parents for obvious reasons. Today, I would turn that person into the authorities but then, it was a dream come true.
10:00, I hope you are not suffering any nightmares. If you are, please share them with us.
ReplyDelete"I bet if you had a daughter and she was 15, and she was raped by a former male football player you wouldn't be making all these funny jokes."
ReplyDeleteThat is true, but i view these encounters differently.
Monkey, If a young male is being controlled by a woman who ruins his social network and isolates him, I see your point. But as a male, I can tell you that it is pretty much every high school boy's dream to go to space mountain with any of his hot teachers, and even some who are not so hot. An NFL cheerleader is like hitting the jackpot. Sorry.
ReplyDelete"Agree with you Bernie especially since the girls were in one wing of the building and the boys in the other. We were robbed!!!"
ReplyDeleteYes we were.
It's always the moms who make a federal case out of it, or claim psychological damage.
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At 14 my neighbor, a hot woman of 43 was my best teacher. Every boy should have one. I never felt abused or raped. Felt more like I was given keys to a candy store.
1:28 sounds like your stuck at 14. Be care full what you ask for.
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ReplyDelete903: well said and very true. Bernie: take Tricia's advice and get help.
ReplyDeleteAnd, one more thing, 9:03...same thing happens with severe hazing. The popular jock jerk justifies it as "toughening him up" just like the female adult justifies her rape as "helping and teaching" him. I'm glad these crimes are being taken seriously today, and yes, I do (unfortunately) teach my sons how to avoid being victimized- both by adults and by their peers and if/when I learn of them treating another person disrespectfully, it's not a fun day in this home. Bernie: seriously, get help.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure we all could use some help but I think a lot of people feel the way I do.
ReplyDeleteOh lighten up Francis'.. Good job Bernie. Boys that age have raging hormones.. If decent and sometimes not so decent pootanng is available, they will go for it.
ReplyDeleteKnow quite a few guys who loved to muff dive just about anything. Problem is at that age you can't keep your mouth shut, so when confronted you have got to play the victim.
Boners rule baby!
Sorry.. but you can not rape the willing. These trials are a lot to do about nothing. Most young men dream of that opportunity and once they get it, will go on for the rest of their lives reliving those events. That's just the way it is. Hopefully that young man will not cooperate nor testify. Its time for PC to stop in these matters.
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ReplyDeleteYou had better hope I never meet you.
ReplyDelete912: sorry. Yes you can. So when my respite 15 yo foster son ( out of nowhere) offered to blow me if I allowed him to remain in my home so that he didn't have to go into residential treatment, it would've been ok and not rape? Screw you. Btw, I kept tabs on him after he left my home. On his 18th birthday, he signed himself out of care, his alt. Ed. Teacher resigned from his job on the same day and he moved in with him.
ReplyDeleteThis was/is a boy who was raped repeatedly by his father and 2 older brothers from the ages of 4-12, when it was finally discovered and he went into care.
yes, you can rape the willing, but I guess it's your definition of "willing"
Dude, this has nothing to do with some Pervy guy preying on boys. This is an NFL cheerleader - every 15 yo hetero boy's dream.
ReplyDeleteIgnorant as charged! Guilty!
ReplyDeleteThis woman may have been an NFL cheerleader, but she's got a lot of miles on her.
ReplyDeleteI can imagine fawning over a 30 year old, but 47? Would a boy really want to tap that?
At 15, I'd say yes.
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